Do you want any or all of this?

• You want to feel empowered in your unique form of relationship! You want acceptance, respect and recognition that you are in an authentic relationship with an authentic form of sexuality.

• You want the acknowledgment that your relationship is genuine, that it is legitimate and healthy, not a throwback to old childhood wounds and so-called pathology. You want to be free of shame, guilt and fear in expressing yourselves authentically.

• You want to explore your sexual edge and connect with your partner(s) in an even deeper way! You want to spontaneously express your feelings towards your partner(s) through your chosen form of lovemaking.

• You want to set clear boundaries and create formalized agreements within your relationship. You want to minimize conflict and maximize the freedom to explore. You would like to feel heard and understood.

• You want a safe, consensual relationship where everyone wins! You want to be able to negotiate for what you do and don’t want. You want to be able to say ‘no’ without guilt.

• You want to feel good about being ‘bad’ don’t you? You want to connect to your deepest sexual phantasies and express them to your partner(s) and feel that they (and you) are okay. And perhaps you’ll even live some of them out.

• You want to PLAY together! You want to connect to the pure joy of being together, however that may look and feel. Life is serious enough, isn’t it?

• And of course, you want to be able to handle the ‘normal’ day-to-day issues that we face in every relationship, even the ‘vanilla’ ones. You want to face them with compassion and empathy.